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I'm a year-old married mother to twin teenage daughters. I am blessed to have many girlfriends -- mostly married, several single -- and feel like I've been a good friend to them, regardless of their marital status.

ror Kind of like Stephen Colbert's "I don't see color. After my article on women without children in midlife went viral and I got several requests to write about single women in midlife, I wondered Am I as inclusive as I think toward my single female friends? Am I making assumptions or being insensitive at times?

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So I polled over a dozen academid these women and got some pretty consistent feedback. Here is what single women want their married friends to know. Yes, it can be tough to be single in midlife There clearly are challenges to being single in midlife, from the merely practical to the more deeply personal.

Some daily tasks are just plain difficult when you live on your own. There's no handy husband and you often run the risk of being ripped off by workmen you hire. When you have to move or lift things, you have to call someone for help.

It has to be planned, not spontaneous. You also friendw to lean on friends for a ride to or from some doctors' appointments -- a colonoscopy buddy. Single mothers in particular feel the weight of responsibility managing so much on their own: I'm worn out being the initiator in my business, in parenting, on the home front, and for the whole personal side of my life.

Just too many decisions to make morning, noon, and night," says Bonnie.

Gertrude agrees, wishing she had a partner to lean on, "It would be nice if someone was waiting to see me at the end of the day, to give me that warm hug and to offer support when I am going through something.

Sometimes that means you are home alone on a Saturday night, unless you have lots of single friends," explains Stephanie. Family members may have unfair expectations when it comes to their single middle-aged relatives, especially when they don't have children, like Stephanie: Despite the fact that my parents are retired and in good health, they have Fuck Rosenberg lady expected me to use my limited vacation time to travel to them for the holidays or other visits, even when I have had better accommodations for a visitor than they do.

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Some, like Gertrude, resent the pity: And traveling alone can be awkward. Some couples try to include me in events, but I do feel like the third wheel sometimes," explains Gertrude. Tracy is lucky to have a travel companion but she gets grief for that: I don't get it. We enjoy each other's company marriwd who else are we supposed to spend time with?

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Katie agrees, "I have a friend who always talks about how she and her husband and this couple and that couple went out for a fun evening.

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It reminds me that I don't bring the requisite male to the mix, therefore mess up the balance. Why can't the three of us go to dinner? Stephanie has seen a difference in the way she's been treated socially when she's had a significant other: I am not sure why inviting a single person is perceived as throwing off the party. And at times Married mature women married academic looking for close friends I have been in a relationship, it is amazing how much more I was included in social events.

Helaine, who has kids, felt the shift after her divorce, "What I don't understand is how before we all had plans as a family, but now no.

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Since you're not friends with my ex, why did you stop inviting us over or accepting requests for family plans? Why can't a married family still make plans with a divorced family?

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Ellie yearns for inclusion: Girlfriends, know that I rely on your friendships Time and again, single women describe the added importance of their female friendships in their lives. Please know how important you are to me. I may seem fine living like a hermit, but having friends I can call at any time qomen me feel as though I'm not alone," explains Anne.

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Joanne is thrilled to have good friends: When I hear about mature women who get a man and just drop their friends, it's a tough pill for me to swallow. Thank God Carol was still there when I came back, tail between my legs. She never said anything about it but I vowed that I would never drop a friend like that again. Ellie has been on the receiving end of being dropped by married girlfriends -- in her case, after her divorce: It sucks to have women who were once your friends decide that you are suddenly the devil because you are not with their husband's bestie.

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One of them actually told me that we could lolking be friends as long as I didn't bring up all of the 'garbage. I told her to fuck off. And Married mature women married academic looking for close friends it comes to making new married friends, Sue is surprised at the attitude she sometimes encounters: It is so funny to me that my 9-toyear relationship doesn't count but their 6-month marriage does -- or their serial marriages, in some cases!

Just because I'm single and 50 doesn't mean I'm desperate and Kumasi girls fuck for money date anyone Many, but not all, women who are single in midlife would like to be in a relationship and do enjoy dating. Sue describes wome wonderful feeling of first dates, that thrill of starting over.

Bonnie feels it's particularly discouraging that "men my age want to date someone 10 to 20 years younger than them. What is going on?

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Are they for real? I want someone my age. I don't want someone 10 to 20 years older than me.

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Stephanie explains, "They are anxious to match me up with someone they know, their only criteria being that he is also single -- no regard for my likes or dislikes.

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My well-meaning elderly neighbor suggested that I should act dumb on the first few dates to attract a man, as I apparently scare them off woen my immense intellect! Nicole agrees, "Just because I am not seeing someone does not mean I am desperate and will date just anyone.

If I was not attracted to a type of guy before, what makes you think that will suddenly change just because I'm matre 40? And yes, like Stephanie, single women in midlife get accused of being too picky or demanding.

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My future is no worse than yours -- there are no guarantees in life The women I interviewed have pretty realistic perspectives on the future. Bonnie admits, "After being single for 8 years, I wonder if I will be single for the rest of my life.

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Yes, sometimes I think about what will happen if I age and lose my capacities but it is what it is and, if you prepare things properly and have someone who can be your advocate and executor, you don't have to worry.

But there is nothing that you can do in your younger years that will absolutely guarantee that you will have a man when you're in your 50s, or that he will be around for the long run. I always wish new couples a long and wonderful life together, but please don't be cocky because nothing is guaranteed. Please believe me when I say it: I am okay Ladies want casual sex Jackson Hole who are single in midlife want the rest of us to know that, despite life's normal ups and downs, they are doing just fine.

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Sue agrees, "Some people think you never married because you were selfish or too focused on your career or too picky. Did they ever think it just wasn't meant to be your life and there is nothing wrong with being single? Cari, divorced Marired of a 7-year-old, appreciates her newfound independence: I get to decide how the money is managed, what bills get paid off first, what school or summer camp is appropriate for my child.

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I have been married and lonely and, believe me, that is much worse than being single, independent, and free. And now that Marrled am beyond the 'baby years,' I am actually pretty much ok with it and wonder if marriage is even one of my goals anymore.

If I had married any of the men I thought I wanted to marry, I am pretty sure I would be divorced now Maried. I am happy with the life I have built and am lucky to be able to afford most things that I want on one income. As my nest empties, I see endless possibilities in my next chapter.

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