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Can I ever overcome the daunting thought that those sexual relationships will forever be a part of ours? Will our first time still be as special as if we had both waiting or will he be reminded of those other girls?
My boyfriend of three years revealed to me two years ago that he had had oral and anal sex but be swore to me that he never had vaginal sex. I am a virgin son this came as a devastating shock for me but since I love him I have chosen to forgive him and stay with him.
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Is it a given that we will always get these intense negative emotions with whomever non-waiter we date? Please share your experiences…. I feel extremely unwanted. Has anyone been in a similar situation or have any advice?
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Mike has clearly experienced the topic at hand and knows what he is talking about. I am not a waiter and neither is my partner. I am such a hypocrite because Ive had more sexual experience than her but her sexual past has continued to haunt me for some time. I love my fiance and soon to be wife deeply. There is nothing I would not do for her. My feelings for her transcend government, law, religion and anything else you can think of.
I asked my partner about her sexual past and she feels very protected, safe and open with me so she told me everything honestly. Her number is rather small but the fact that men have used and abused her and she stayed with them devastates me. It makes me worry deeply. My imagination is my worst enemy.
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I guess ultimately the two couplds are: I recently found out the girl I am falling in love with has in a recent past slept with a old friend now searchign of mine. She does not even acknowledges him when they see each-other but I cannot stop thinking about how this girl could talk herself into sleeping with such person. Except the previous girl was a slut, who had slept with many people I knew and continued to talk to them as friends. My boyfriend found this article and showed it to me.
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If tempted by the same sex or even being intimate with my partner I would like to wait till being married. But of entering in a relationship and that also of telling my whole part to the other person really scares me, knowing that this person will always be hurt and so will I be too.
Another perfect page outlining how the doctrines of religion to do with human relationships creates more damage than harmony. Grandma looking for sex in 46360 wy job bible bashers. I would not continue to date or marry a woman who is not a virgin, even if I really liked her otherwise. But, for those who would and there is nothing wrong with that I would imagine it is exteremely important to be able to move past their sexual history.
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I remember it like it was yesterday, laying and cuddling no sex she told me she had slept with 20 other guys! Instantly I was shocked, hurt, and felt cheated.
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It was very obvious that she felt terrible about her past, and the last thing she needed was some idiot bringing it up to her and pouring salt on a wound. So I stuck to my lists and as time went by my thinking changed to a loving, caring, sensitive, and respectful for her. She is an amazing woman, and I am lucky to be loved by her! Since then we have been so amzingly happy and she is a blessing in my life.
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It makes it much more easy to make comparisons, and shows that she does place some sort of emphasis on sex. I almost kind of wish she had slept with a lot more people, if she had to have sex with someone. Its difficult for a guy much more so than a girl because of the pressures to be experienced but i REFUSE to give in and give away my virginity like it was Woodstown NJ bi horny wives a dollar.
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