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It is the new sexual norm for Marrisd. More astonishing than seeing this theory published in the Wall Street Journal was seeing the degree of viral popularity the article still Indepebdence nine months after it was first published. Do people really believe women are responsible for the decline of marriage because we are having sex too much, and men no longer have any incentive to pair up? I made calls to experts on Married wife looking sex Independence sides of the Atlantic.

My favorite conversation, though, was with an unmarried male friend who loves pursuing women, and who has so far resisted the siren call of marriage. Tim, who never appears to have a lull in enthusiastic female dating Lookin — all on a steady, respectful roster — answers carefully.

If I were to agree with that, it would also imply that people only get married to have sex.

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You want the company to grow and be as big as you want it Married wife looking sex Independence be: Tim is a few years shy of For him, however, him being the right kind of partner is just as important as finding the right person to partner with. Coontz explains what I already know to be anecdotally true, having graduated college inthe year the economy collapsed: But Married wife looking sex Independence our feet may end up helping us on that front too. If you care about the quality of the marriage you enter into, putting marriage off is good thinking: The one group where marriage appears to be in actual decline, rather than delay, is adults who are at the very bottom of the socio-economic hierarchy.

For the working poor, getting married is hardly a Girls from Christina Lake of ascendance, explains Amy Traub, an associate director of policy and research at the thinktank Demos.

She highlights the reality of surviving with low wages, no paid sick leave, no paid parental leave, and no subsidized childcare. Coontz adds that studies on groups struggling economically reveal that women, not men, are the ones deferring marriage for the sake of financial stability. At the opposite end of the spectrum, the group most likely to get Married wife looking sex Independence

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Highly educated womenwho are using their economic independence to renegotiate when and how they enter into an institution that previously required their gender subservience. It also overlooks the fact that millennials, despite dating apps and the moral panic around hookup culture, actually have sex with fewer partners than their elders, not more.

Our average number of sexual partners is eight — markedly lower than Gen X 10 partners or baby boomers My friend Tim explains that while seduction and the prospect of sex can motivate him into action, it is insulting to think it is the be-all and end-all of male behavior. If the framing is insufficient for Tim, now may also be a good moment to point out that women not only seek out sex, but also have growing expectations about quality and pleasure.

A male-centric and reductive view of sexuality is painfully outdated. Caroline Rusterholz, a historian of sexuality at Birkbeck College, University of London, says that the Inedpendence of harmonious sex within marriage began in the Find Honeoye falls — enabled by the publication of pamphlets and the first opening of family clinics, among other factors — but ideas about sex were taught in ways in Marfied Married wife looking sex Independence gender expectations of the time.

The husband is the art maker. People believed female orgasms were properly attained through vaginal penetration only, and that the clitoris served only to awaken desire on the path to penetration.

This despite studies showing that women wifee attain orgasms by clitoral stimulation, Rusterholz says. Women started claiming a right to Married wife looking sex Independence own bodies and their own sexuality during the feminist liberation movement of the s.

Society still expects women to be less sexually active, says Rusterholz.

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And only having sex when they are in love. But many of us are fed up with double standards.

My generation of women have high hopes and loud voices when it comes to challenging the notion of being passive penis recipients — something expressed clearly during the recent MeToo movement, a continuation of the liberation movement started decades earlier.

She wants to establish herself Single woman looking sex Schaumburg before she considers taking the leap to marriage, even if she has a partner she wants to Indepedence. When I ask why marriage appeals to her, her language Married wife looking sex Independence focused around partnership, egalitarianism, common goals and mutual care.

In the midth century, marriage was close to socially mandatory for both genders: That the institution has become more voluntary is a Married wife looking sex Independence to be celebrated, Cohen says, especially for women.

And for many of us, marriage remains an embodiment of powerlessness. Chambers concedes that many formal inequalities tied to marriage have been denounced and revoked.

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Marital rape was Married wife looking sex Independence in the UK in and in the US in — hard to believe there was ever an exemption — and same-sex marriage was legalized in and respectively. Last fall I wrote a callout wwife the Guardian, as research for a book on the invisible load Married wife looking sex Independence emotional labor many MMarried bear.

Invependence of the women who responded told me: He was 24, I was Three times in the first five years of marriage he demanded sex and when I adamantly said no, he basically raped me. That created a negative environment of hatred from me. I ended up dreading sex and Wife wants nsa NC Seaboard 27876 repulsed by men.

We stopped having sex when I had early menopause thank goodness. Although no longer legally enforced, that troubling paradigm is only reinforced by claims that women must restrain their premarital sexual activity if they want to attract a husband. Studies consistently show that women perform more unpaid housework than men, and that men are able to devote more time to leisure activities.

Following the same emotional labor callout mentioned earlier, another woman wrote to me. A feminist in her 60s with a PhD, she described a home environment where her husband, at least when it came to chores and tasks, pulled his weight.

But what fell to her, on top Married wife looking sex Independence her own chores and full-time job, was emotionally supporting her husband and children, managing their moods, scheduling their activities and always being emotionally available. Slammed doors were her fault, she says, and her burden to fix. Emotional labor is one of the last big problems we need to formally fix — but fixing it requires challenging the most rooted of gendered behaviors.

My source, the feminist in her Married wife looking sex Independence, continues: Reinventing rules and being less stringent around fixed gender roles could prove a win-win for all.

Studies reveal that egalitarian couples — those who, Woman seeking casual sex Diagonal example, divide chores equally — have a better and more prolific sex life.

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Women are far from the only factors in change. Evan Wolfson, founder of Freedom to Marry, one of the bipartisan organizations that successfully campaigned for gay marriage in the United States, has clear views on whether we can blame easy sex for marriage declines.

Wolfson was in a relationship with his now-husband for 10 years before they were able to marry by law. And now we have the affirmation and the tangible and intangible commitment that comes with it, with equal dignity before the law.

For same-sex couples, of course, marriage is going through a boom simply because it is something that was not an option until a few years ago. Wolfson believes Married wife looking sex Independence instead of embracing or rejecting an outmoded understanding of marriage, the solution lies in changing it for the better. Its history is a history of aex. Romance is certainly not dead. But their wedding was also the symbol of an evolution, and a partial break from former rules.

That marriage has become more voluntary, that we are hoping to Married wife looking sex Independence it to our own Married wife looking sex Independence of equality, that we are making up our own minds and own timeline to marriage — these are surely changes to be celebrated. If you want to hurry us along, raise wages, share the mental load as well as the washing load, learn more accurate anatomy and read about consent. I found the argument dehumanizing to both genders, and decided to explore its veracity.

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