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Even with all the problems with my wife, if she were just willing to admit that she had problems I might try to work it out. Not only are you admitting it, but you see that a problem exists. One suggestion that I have is to please be honest with your husband and tell him the same things that you said here. Also, if you do something, no matter how bad it is, admit it and ask him to forgive you.
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A point where there was no turning back and getting better? I worry despite apologies after the fact and a real medical condition that eventually that will not be enough. If so, knock it off. How would you feel if he said those kinds of things to you?
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I encourage you to seek support throughout this process as it can be very painful and isolating on your own. I just ran across this article and website. It is so helpful! Been married 18 years with two wonderful kids to a woman girl undiagnosed BPD.
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I love my wife dearly but have finally made up my mind that I can no longer tolerate the abuse I have been suffering. She is on holiday in the far east! Although miles away still tries to bully by txt. I dont have the support structure that you suggest that is so vital so being away is the only way I can cope with the stress. Is there any treatment for individuals who suffer this condition or is it a hopeless case.
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And, quite honestly, I knew that my bond with them would outlast our relationship. Tell them you need their love and support. I am very self-protective, so we fought like crazy.
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